How do you tell if you are in balance or out of kilter?

If you are well-balanced, you feel good. You are resilient, can survive setbacks without being put off your stride. When in balance, you have the energy to tackle things, both at work and in your free time. But once you are out of balance you are easily irritated, you react emotionally and sometimes out of all proportion to anything that does not go your way. Maybe a child who argues with you, disagreements with your partner or issues with a customer at work. As someone gets further out of balance, their energy levels fall and physical symptoms or even feelings of depression can show up. All the more reason to want to keep in balance and to be alert as a manager to the balance of your colleagues. But how on earth do you do that?

Personal rules

As a former top sportswoman, it seems perfectly normal to Sanne to work on the basis of small chunks of time. This means that you build up very deliberately towards a strong performance. Not by training at full stretch all the time, but by increasing the difficulty and intensity your training, and alternating with rest periods. You also need to make sure that you are well rested when you are due to deliver a peak performance, and take time afterwards to recover. This applies just as much to performance in your day-to-day life and at work. Here too, you need to make sure that you start any challenging tasks properly rested, so you have the energy to reach your peak. Afterwards, you also need to relax and recharge.

What is actually meant by relaxing and recharging will be different for each of us. You therefore need to define your own rules. Where will you draw energy from, and what do you need to be able to do that properly? Of course a lot of relaxation options have disappeared thanks to Covid, meanwhile a lot is being demanded of us - other ways of working, less social contacts, uncertainty, etc. - so you need to take a close look at how you can recharge. And how you make enough room for that during these times.

TIP: Have you no idea (any more) where you can draw more energy? Review step by step the things you enjoy. Going out into nature - everyone feels better for that. Plan a day off, just for yourself. Don't know what you want to do? Then do nothing, that's good too.

How do you as a manager encourage your colleagues to keep their balance?

As a manager you are of course setting an example. It does not help either you or the team if you sit and fret about what can't be done, so focus mainly on what can be done. Then focus on peak performance instead of high performance. In the case of the latter, you continually expect high performance from yourself, and just soldier on. If you go for peak performance, then you quite deliberately pick the goals you want to work towards and then take a break to recharge your batteries.

Top sports people deliberately schedule a rest period both before and after an important competition. There is a good reason for this. If you want to perform well, then you need to have plenty of energy. To be able to rely on this at just the right moment, you need to look after yourself.

So ask your colleagues to think of themselves as top sportsmen and -women. Get them to reflect on what they need in order to perform well. Give them the freedom to organise their own work and rest times, and encourage them to let go of any feelings of guilt. Stop caring whether someone else thinks they did nothing one day, just by taking a break they will shift more work in less time.

Anyway, you as manager are doing the same thing yourself. For example, each day plan to take half an hour to an hour to go outdoors. Take a walk or play some sport. Tell your people when you will do this, and switch off your phone. That way people understand that you are really not accessible.

Work with energy

Use the following tips each day in order to maintain your balance during a working day. Try it out for yourself, and encourage your colleagues to do the same.

Tips

  1. Take some time for yourself in the morning. Get up fifteen minutes earlier, check in with yourself how you feel and what you need today. And do something that makes you happy. Read a few pages of a book, enjoy a peaceful cup of coffee or do a short workout. Whatever you like.

  2. Starting in on your working day? Then don't just start opening your emails, but ask yourself first which project you want to make a difference with today. And start with that one, at a time when you are still bright-eyed and bushy-tailed.

  3. Try to figure out when during the day your energy peaks and troughs occur. Do you slide into a dip every day around 4 pm? Then plan something for 3 pm that will top up your energy levels. You can then carry on, feeling refreshed.

  4. Do you spend a lot of time working at a computer or a desk? Then exercise a bit every 20 minutes. Literally set an alert. Go outside, do the washing or run up and down the stairs. Can't do that, maybe because you are on a call? At the very least, change your position, turn your head right and left a few times, and stand up and sit down again.

  5. Trust your feelings. You know very well when are just watching the clock. The more you resist it, the harder it bounces back at you. Accept that it just won't work and look for a solution. Shut down your laptop, go to the beach and pick up again in the evening once you have recharged your batteries.

  6. Switch off all notifications. On your phone, your computer, your iPad, wherever. Nothing is more distracting than continuous pings and red dots telling you how many messages you have not yet read. If it is really, really, really important, then someone will call you.

  7. Unfriend everyone on social media who drains your energy. The people who make you feel doubtful or jealous, the people who annoy you, the people with whom you have nothing in common any longer. Deep down you know very well who they are.

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